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Dec 2024
20m 41s

How to Answer “Tell Us About Yourself”

Essential Communications - Tom Henschel
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A senior leader, upset about having flubbed her reply to ‘Tell us about yourself’ during a high-stakes interview, talks with her coach about how to prepare for what she considers to be an incredibly stupid question. Categories in the archive to explore: Communication Skills Executive Presence Presentation Skills Six episodes to dive into: 34 - Keeping R ... Show More
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