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Nov 2024
49m 11s

Pick Me Girls w/ Violet Benson

Dr. Emily Morse
About this episode

I am joined by Violet Benson, host of the podcast Almost Adulting and creator of the wildly popular Instagram account @DaddyIssues_. Over the last couple of years, Violet has become well known for her irreverent relationship and dating advice. 

In this interview, Violet reveals why she has stopped dating (for now), what exactly a “pick me girl” is and how attraction is not always dependent on good looks. And because this is a sex show after all, Violet shared some tips for avoiding potentially embarrassing moments in the bedroom. This is a good one!

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • Why taking a break from dating can reset your emotional boundaries
  • How to embrace authenticity in relationships
  • Practical tips to avoid awkward bedroom moments


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