Apr 20

The Problem With Watching Online Love Advice (Yes, Including Mine) | Matt Monday

I’ve been making videos for nearly 20 years. If you’ve been here that whole time, thank you. But there’s a silent danger in doing this…It can't be the only thing you do to make progress in your love life.At some point, constant content consumption without action becomes a form of ... Show More

14m 52s

Apr 17

Why Modern Dating Feels So Frustrating (And What To Do Instead) | Rewind

Dating apps can make it feel like we’re competing with endless options… while somehow no one is actually trying.In this episode, Matthew explores the frustrating reality of modern dating—why people seem flaky, why effort feels one-sided, and how dating apps can distort your perce ... Show More

18m 46s

Apr 13

What Japan Taught Me About Life and Love | Matt Monday

This episode is unlike anything I’ve done on this channel before. It explores the lessons I’ve learned from my many visits to Japan, including my most recent trip last month. From the power of doing less to a deep sense of collective responsibility, Japan has reshaped how I think ... Show More

13m 54s

May 2023

Ep 97: Why Dating Apps AREN'T The Enemy

What's the first thing that comes to your mind when you hear the words "dating app?" If it's a resounding "ugggghhh," guess what? You're going to want to listen to this episode. I get it. Lots of people have told themselves all kinds ... Show More

27m 25s

Aug 2025

Sick of Wasting Time? 7 Ways to Find Love Fast in Your 50’s

Tired of dating feeling like a second job with no benefits? This podcast episode offers 7 powerful strategies to transform your approach, helping you date smarter, not harder. Discover how to identify your non-negotiables, efficiently screen potential partners, and master meet ... Show More

25m 56s

Apr 2022

Ep 43: What to Do (& NOT Do) On a First Date

Is there anything more exciting or terrifying than a first date? No other event is so full of hopeful potential as well as awkward dread; It's a weird thing for sure. And then there are the "first date tips" that usually revolve around what to wear and what to eat (or not eat ... Show More

23m 32s

Sep 2023

Stop Chasing GHOSTS! How to Stop Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Partners

Tired of attracting partners who won’t fully commit? It’s time to break the cycle of emotional unavailability! In this empowering episode, I will be sharing: the top signs of an emotionally unavailable partner so you can spot the patterns early - how to communicate your needs and ... Show More

33m 6s

Sep 2025

How To Find The Right Person In Love (...and NOT Settle) | Najwa Zebian

Everyone talks about love, but no one teaches you how to choose the right person. In this episode, poet, author, and relationship coach Najwa Zebian shares how to know if you’ve found the right partner... AND how to stop settling for the wrong ones. 00:00 Intro01:42: Is your rela ... Show More

51m 44s

May 2022

Ep 50: How to Attract Healthy Love

One of the most common things I hear when working with women is "I just want real love." Dude, I hear you. I know. And sure, to some degree, lots of men are the worst. But, I have news for you- you're part of the problem. Look, it's never fun to identify what we're doi ... Show More

28m 24s

Feb 2025

148. How To Show Interest In Early Dating (Without Looking Desperate)

If showing interest in the person you're dating is scary, this episode will help! Showing interest when you're interested is key in developing a secure, healthy relationship in the early dating stage - even when things feel uncertain. I'm breaking down the appropriate, not-desper ... Show More

35m 17s

Feb 2025

Date Like a Scientist

Do you go on endless dates hoping to find the perfect partner only to be endlessly disappointed? Or have you stopped meeting people because you've decided that you're undateable? Maybe you need to start dating like a scientist. Behavioural scientist Logan Ury has studied the com ... Show More

47m 3s

Feb 2025

LOVE EXPERT Stephan Speaks: 7 Ways You are Blocking Yourself From Meeting Your Soulmate (Change Your Patterns to Find the ONE)

Do you think your “type” limits you? What’s one unrealistic dating expectation you’ve had? Today, Jay welcomes back one of the most insightful voices in modern dating and relationships, Stephan Speaks. If you’ve been searching for clarity in love, struggling with self-worth in da ... Show More

1h 28m

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