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Nov 2024
48m 12s

273: How to Stop Yourself Over-investing...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
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Do you find it easy to fall for one person too quickly? Maybe you start dating with the intention of keeping your options open, but you find yourself repeatedly chasing the first person you like (even if they aren't showing the same level of effort in response). In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Audrey discuss how to date intelligently and find the balance between meeting enough people to give yourself options but also investing in the right person when they come along. ►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again Try Matthew AI at http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com -- Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Follow Audrey @theaudreyhussey

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