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Nov 2024
1h 8m

Dating After 40, Threesomes (Again), and...

Shaun Galanos and John Kim
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Today, Shaun and John talk about cutting people out because of political differences, John’s new tattoo, Shaun’s apartment hunt in LA, and feedback from their listeners. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: have you ever thought about having a threesome with John’s wife, Vanessa, and do you have any tips or advice on dating in your 40’s?


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