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Nov 2024
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How to Overcome Social Anxiety: Simple T...

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About this episode

Ever walked into a room and felt like everyone’s eyes were on you, every flaw on display? You're not alone!

In this episode, we’re diving into what social anxiety really is, where it comes from, and why it affects so many of us. I’m sharing my own journey, my little tips and tricks, and how I found a path to feeling more calm and present. 

So, if you’ve ever felt the urge to bail on a party last-minute or felt uncomfortable in a crowd, tune in! We’ll explore the roots of this feeling and, hopefully, help you see that social anxiety doesn’t have to control your life. Let’s find that inner calm, together.

 

What Was Discussed:

  • 00:00 Intro

  • 02:34 Why I’ve Canceled Plans Last Minute

  • 05:29 It’s Not Always About You

  • 07:47 Are You Stopping Yourself From Feeling Better?

  • 08:17 Show Up as Your True Self

  • 10:23 Setting Goals and Giving Yourself an Exit Strategy

  • 11:29 Get Comfortable with Uncomfortable Conversations

  • 15:13 Be Honest About Your Anxiety

  • 16:11 The “So What” Method

  • 17:47 Ask More Questions and Become Curious

  • 20:22 Sometimes You Just Have to Show Up

  • 21:36 Ayurvedic Tips for Managing Anxiety

  • 22:39 The Cost of Anxiety

  • 23:42 Join A Club

  • 24:40 How Clothing Impacts Confidence

  • 26:03 Self-Love is Key to Confidence

 

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