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May 2023
54m 18s

How to Be More Confident with Women? Bec...

Connell Barrett
About this episode
You want to confidently date wonderful women, flirt with charm, and find your dream girlfriend. Right?

But self-doubt holds you back, you’re not sure how to talk to girls… and desirable women just don’t seem into you.

Rejection. Loneliness. Low confidence. Dating can suck. But it doesn’t have to!

In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—shares the most important secret for learning how to get a girlfriend: become Radically Authentic.

Connell gives it to you straight. Creepy “pickup” tricks don’t work. Scripted lines don’t work. Pretending to be someone you’re not doesn’t work. What does work? Unleashing the power of Radical Authenticity to awaken your most attractive self. Because women like you for YOU. You’re about to learn the secrets of being Radically Authentic, such as…

✔ How to be confident with women, so you can approach cute girls and get dates… even if you’re not tall or great-looking

✔ The 5 steps you can take TODAY to put you on the path to finding your dream girlfriend.

✔ How to “spark attraction” just by speaking your honest, authentic self, and never “run out of things to say”

✔ PLUS: At the end of the podcast, Connell gives you a practical, one-sentence marching order that will transform your confidence and your dating success IF you put it into practice.

Dating can make you feel frustrated and rejected. It doesn’t have to be this way! YOU ARE ENOUGH as your authentic self to gain confidence, flirt with charm… and find a wonderful woman who loves you for YOU.

Listen now, to go from self-doubt and loneliness to confidently dating wonderful women who like you for your TRUE, authentic self.

For a Free Strategy Call with Connell, to Learn How to Attract Your Dream Relationship:
www.datingtransformation.com/contact

Get Connell’s No. 1 Bestselling Dating Book for Men, “Dating Sucks but You Don’t,” Your Practical Guide on How to Get a Girlfriend by Being Radically Authentic:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
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