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Nov 2024
10m 40s

No Nut November: Blue Balls or Ballistic...

Kim Anami
About this episode

No Nut November: A worthy pursuit? 

We discuss: 

  • Semen retention 
  • NoFap 
  • Orgasm without ejaculation 
  • The remedy for “blue balls” 
  • To porn or not to porn 
  • Running marathons—and even ultramarathons—after sex, giving a whole new twist on “Have LOTS of sex before the big game” 

If you want to dive deeper into the whole Orgasm without Ejaculation topic, also check these episodes where I interview a Well-F**ked All Star who mastered the technique: 

Semen Retention: What’s All the Fuss? Season 6, Episode 25 

All Men Can Orgasm without Ejaculation: Season 4, Episode 28 


And of course, check out Anthony’s episode:

Marathon Man, Marathon Cock: Season  5, Episode 26

And of course, I deliver the goods on how to DO this in my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon and in the Coming Together for Couples Salon.


You can find my full salon programme here. You can signup for free video series and get on the waitlist to be notified of when we open each of these salons again.

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