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Nov 2024
1h 21m

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Wyoh Lee
About this episode

Cervical orgasms, sex vacations, and submission—Sarah shares about stepping out of religious shame and embracing her own pleasure.

 

00:00 Learning how and when to talk about sex

04:06 Risk aware play and leaving space for adjustment

08:15 Checking in with her high libido demisexual self and asking for what she needs

14:50 Navigating purity culture and discovering the mechanics of sex growing up

23:21 Religious loopholes and feeling the freedom to finally explore

28:32 A seven inch dildo and erotic photography on a solo sex vacation

36:04 Celebrating the return of easy orgasms and Sarah’s favorite ways to cum

40:12 Dating online and in Los Angeles

46:58 Creating safe, intentional, and caring connections

53:18 Being queer and eating pussy for the first time in a threesome

57:53 Enjoying pain, sucking cock, and spit play

1:04:29 Seeking a queer Dominant to explore what she needs as a submissive

1:09:04 Casual non-monogamy explorations

1:11:22 Discovering desires on-camera

1:15:48 Turned on by the novelty of new spaces

1:19:04 Helping partners receive pleasure and the joys of listening to her body

 

📈 STATS | 36 bisexual white femme, sub-leaning switch, ex-Christian, single, non-monogamous, actor, singer, writer, instructional designer, Los Angeles-based, into: sensation play, stimulation, touch, hot words, photography, film, environments

 

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