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Nov 2024
31m 26s

Perfectly Unhappy: The High Achieving Mo...

NATALIE BACON
About this episode

Are you amazing at keeping everything running smoothly but finding it hard to feel truly happy? If you’re a mom who’s juggling endless to-do lists, managing every detail, and still feeling like joy is just out of reach, this episode is for you.

 

Join me as we dive into why high-achieving moms often feel stuck between perfection and happiness. We’ll explore the unspoken costs of perfectionism, the expectations that keep us trapped, and how to shift from doing it all to actually enjoying it all.

 

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • Why perfectionism can actually drain your happiness and self-worth
  • The impact that striving for “perfect” has on your energy, relationships, and sense of self
  • Practical steps to slow down, reconnect with yourself, and find joy in the imperfect moments

 

If you’re ready to feel a little lighter, let something go, and create more peace (even if things aren’t perfect), tune in! Let’s redefine what it means to be a happy, fulfilled mom.

 

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