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Nov 2024
12m 10s

F**k the Pain Away

Kim Anami
About this episode

Sex can be used as an escape, to make you UNconscious. 
 
Or, it can be used to bring you MORE conscious and elevate you and every part of your life. 


We’re all about orgasmic enlightenment in these parts.  


Sex is alchemy. It’s transformation. 


It’s taking your base parts and fusing them into gold. 


You can use sex to help you to move through challenges and emotional and physical pain.


In this episode: 

  • How I f**ked my way out of a brutal breakup 
  • Metabolizing stuck energy to lose weight 
  • Conscious vs. unconscious sex 
  • Science agrees: f**king your pain away is backed by “studies” 
  • How I created one of my most signature pieces of work; via my vagina 

Find my step-by-step, Meditate, Masturbate, Create sequence here


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