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Sep 30
2h 6m

Become Untriggerable: Masculinity, Intim...

JON BROOKS
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Most “men’s advice” teaches tactics. In this conversation, Adam Rice shares a deeper path: becoming untriggerable, relating consciously, and integrating the masculine and feminine so you can lead, love, and live without the drama spiral.

We cover how to spot ego flares in your body, the language of conscious communication, why intimacy beats performance, how to use rituals and rest without sliding into apathy, and when (and how) plant medicines are used in a safe, ethical container.

You’ll learn:

  • A 3‑step trigger protocol you can use mid‑argument
  • The difference between performance sex vs. intimacy‑building sex
  • Right Thought • Right Speech • Right Action—applied to daily life
  • How to challenge a partner without escalating
  • Why rest and “softness” are part of true masculine strength
  • Ceremony vs. recreation and the role of integration

Guest:

Adam Rice — evolution coach, yoga teacher, shamanic guide, and men’s work facilitator.

🔥 🧰  Free SPQR Stoic Reset Kit — 5-min audio + 1-page protocol to stop anxiety spirals fast. → stoichandbook.co/toolkit

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