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Oct 2024
1h 23m

Dating Fatigue: How to Keep Hope Alive A...

Shane Kohler
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If you’re feeling exhausted by the idea of starting over, navigating the dating pool, or investing in relationships only to face uncertainty or pain, you’re not alone.

In this episode, we explore how romantic setbacks can leave you questioning whether it’s worth it and offer practical insights on how to stay open to love without compromising your healing or peace of mind. Join me as we discuss strategies for overcoming emotional exhaustion, setting new relationship standards, and reigniting joy and vitality within yourself, regardless of relationship outcomes.

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