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When BPD Turns Rejection Into Rage
Have you ever felt rejected and suddenly found yourself angry before you could even explain why?In this mini-sode of The BPD Bunch, Xannie, Carys, Jack, and Katja respond to a viewer question about regulating anger after rejection. The conversation gets into what can happen when ... Show More
18m 5s
Jun 3
BPD and Intimacy: Learning to Trust Without Losing Yourself
Have you ever confused emotional intensity with intimacy?In this episode of The BPD Bunch, Xannie, Justin, Andre, Carys, and Mo continue their conversation about BPD and intimacy, this time focusing on what actually helped them build healthier relationships in recovery.They talk ... Show More
37m 8s
May 27
The BPD Relationship Pattern Nobody Warns You About (BPD Intimacy)
Have you ever felt like losing one person would destroy your entire life… even while the relationship itself was destroying you?In this episode of The BPD Bunch, Xannie, Carys, André, Mo, and Justin talk openly about the intense, chaotic, and often painful relationship patterns t ... Show More
39m 35s
Sep 2025
338. The psychology of borderline personality disorder (BPD)
Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is one of the most misunderstood mental health conditions, clouded by stigma and misinformation. In this episode, we take a compassionate, research-based look at what BPD really is, where it comes from, and how people living with it can find ... Show More
58m 27s
Nov 2023
Living with Borderline Personality Disorder
Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is a mental health condition characterized by a pattern of instability in one's mood, self-image, behavior, and relationships. Individuals with BPD often experience intense and rapidly changing emotions, have difficulties regulating their emo ... Show More
1h 20m
Jan 2025
Borderline Personality Disorder: Splitting & Identity Diffusion with Mark Ruffalo
In this episode of the Psychiatry & Psychotherapy Podcast, Dr. David Puder is joined by Mark Ruffalo to dive deep into the complexities of borderline personality disorder (BPD). Together, they unpack Donald Burnham's influential 1966 paper on splitting and identity diffusion, exp ... Show More
1h 44m
May 2025
Bipolar Disorder Shame Breeds in Darkness | Shaley Hoogendoorn (this is bipolar) | EP 44 🌄
Mental health advocate Shaley Hoogendoorn shares a powerful journey of bipolar disorder, and the years spent hiding in plain sight with unexplained symptoms of mania, depression and psychosis. After a public breakdown in front of 700 people, Shaley disappeared in shame - that mom ... Show More
1h 2m
Feb 2025
Tuesday Truth: A Message of Hope & Encouragement for Those with BPD
<p>Living with <strong>Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)</strong> can feel like an emotional rollercoaster—intense emotions, deep fears of abandonment, and struggles with relationships. But <strong>healing is possible</strong>. In this episode, we’re talking about <strong>hop ... Show More
8m 58s
Apr 2025
Transference Focused Psychotherapy & Personality Disorders with Dr. Otto Kernberg
In this episode, Dr. Otto Kernberg, a pioneer of Transference-Focused Psychotherapy (TFP), discusses personality disorders through a psychoanalytic lens. Explore key insights into Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), identity diffusion, primitive defense mechanisms such as spli ... Show More
1h 28m
Oct 2025
469 SelfWork: Understanding the Fears and Faces of Borderline Moms
Today we’re focusing on what are termed borderline traits as well as different types of borderline personality disorder.There are many people, primarily women, who struggle with it, without knowing what to call it. In fact, it wasn’t a “diagnosis” until 1980. But that certainly d ... Show More
23m 6s
Apr 2025
Adult Children of Borderline Parents with Daniel S. Lobel, PhD
Daniel S. Lobel, PhD, author of Adult Children of Borderline Parents, joins us to discuss how adult children can recover from a toxic childhood and discover a healthy sense of self. Daniel is a clinical psychologist who practices in Katonah, NY. He is an internationally known exp ... Show More
52m 20s
<p>Xannie, Raf, Solène and Lena discuss living with borderline personality disorder (BPD) and seasonal affective disorder (SAD). Practicing clinician, Lena, explains what SAD is and how that shows up for patients with BPD. The bunch share their personal experiences with the two disorders, as well as their top tips for coping and valuable lessons learned alon ... Show More
