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Oct 2024
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Ep. 505: Rediscover Your Closet, Persona...

Gretchen Rubin / The Onward Project
About this episode

We discuss a challenge to wear three items of clothing we are not currently using--and explore ways to overcome common obstacles. We also share creative happiness hacks for welcoming overnight guests, and examine how people who tend to be rigid can adjust their rules to reduce stress in changing circumstances.

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Elizabeth is reading: Swan Song by Elin Hilderbrand (AmazonBookshop

Gretchen is reading: Super-Infinite: The Transformations of John Donne by Katherine Rundell (AmazonBookshop

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