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Oct 2024
43m 13s

Why We Hurt the Ones We Love—and How to ...

XO Podcast Network, Dave Willis, Ashley Willis
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Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! In this episode, we’re tackling one of the biggest relationship killers: contempt. We talk about how constant criticism and negativity can slowly erode the foundation of your marriage, creating resentment and emotional distance. But don’t worry—we’re also sharing some powerful ways to reco ... Show More
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