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Oct 2024
46m 42s

DMs, Drama, & Dating: My Social Media Su...

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Gather 'round little chickens... today Harry is breaking down his rules for dating in the age of social media! Harry gives his hot takes on everything from the early stages of dating like how to slide into someone's DMs or his rule on playing "the game" to the more serious stages of dating. What are his rules on location sharing or handling conflict in a relationship? Is it ever OKAY to respond to a cold DM when you're in a relationship? Tune in to hear Harry's take and let us know: do you agree or do you have a rule of your own?

This episode ends with Harry answering YOUR questions: relationship compatibility, not knowing your partner's password, what to do when your best friend breaks girl code, and more!

Follow and connect with all things @BoyfriendMaterial across Instagram, TikTok, and Youtube. Have a great week, you naughty possums!

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