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Oct 2024
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LIFE UPDATE: the plane ride from hell

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#168. A little trigger warning for today’s episode — we are discussing the topic of miscarriage. specifically, my recent experience with an incomplete miscarriage (VERY early, too). this isn’t your normal NTS ep, but I felt the urge to finally share what I’ve been dealing with for the last month and a half.


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