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Oct 2024
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Simple Ways to Feel Sexier Today, with R...

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#167. The girls from The Confident Collective are on Note to Self to discuss feeling SEXY. Feeling sexy in your own skin can be complicated for many of us (I know it has been a journey for me, thus far), we’re talking about a few things that make us feel sexy pretty much immediately. This episode is inspired by a series on TikTok by Greta Louise Tomé. 


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