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Sep 2024
1h 22m

Why Does My BF’s Stability Turn Me Off?

BETCHES MEDIA
About this episode
We’re navigating second-guessing today! Jared tells Jordana about his latest trip to Boca, when his parents started dissecting why he’s still single, and Jordana pulls him out his own head. Afterward, they get an email from a listener concerned that her boyfriend is too much of a green flag. She spent her 20s dating toxic “boys,” so why isn’t she satisfied i ... Show More
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