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Sep 2024
51m 10s

Shame Resilience - Andrea Owen [507]

HUNTER CLARKE-FIELDS
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We all have shame but we don’t talk about it. And it can drive our behavior to change on a dime, so how do we deal with it? How does shame affect our parenting? Hunter talks to life coach Andrea Owen about how to become shame resilient and how to help our kids avoid being driven by shame. ABOUT HUNTER CLARKE-FIELDS: Hunter Clarke-Fields is the host Mindful ... Show More
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