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Sep 2024
1h 29m

For the Girls vs. Pick Me Girls with Bec...

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About this episode

We LOVED chatting and laughing with podcaster/influencer Becca Moore on this episode! She shares how being slut shamed by a prospective employer led her to her career today, and then we discuss the opportunistic “friends” (and mean girls) you meet when you first move to a city, and we break down sibling drama in large families. Becca shares her story of realizing she liked women, how she pursued her current partner, and why she had anxiety about hooking up with a woman for the first time. And then we talk about Pick Mes – what makes a Pick Me Girl, why guys can be Pick Me too, and how to handle these people in your friend circle. Before Becca joins us, we’re talking about Ashley officiating her first same-sex wedding, Rayna’s girl crush, our "imaginary" friends, and why we're about to come to life in the fall. Enjoy! 

 

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