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Sep 2024
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125. let's talk dating advice, confidenc...

REBECCA LEIGH
About this episode

Hi, my loves!

Welcome back to the podcast! I am so excited about today's episode because we have a fantastic guest joining us—Victoria Alario, confidence and business coach, and host of the For The Girls podcast.

Victoria is your go-to girl for empowering women, and today we’re diving into key topics like building confidence, practicing mindfulness, improving communication, setting dating standards, and showing up as the best version of yourself.

You'll walk away with tangible tips to boost your confidence, approach dating with more intention, and do the inner work that will help you show up for the life you truly want.

Let me know if you tune in!

With love,


Rebecca xx

1:56 - Introduction to Victoria Alario and Her Story
8:29 - Learning As You Go
9:16 - Victoria's Tips for Confidence
9:33 - Tip #1: Confidence Is a Byproduct of Action
11:07 - Tip #2: I Only Want What Wants Me; Everything I Want Wants Me Back
15:50 - Tip #3: The Power of Journaling
17:40 - Tip #4: Be Mindful and Practice Communication
20:00 - Tip #5: The 48-Hour Rule in Dating
23:20 - Tip #6: Your Perception Creates Your Reality
25:54 - Tip #7: Standards Need to Be Non-Negotiables
31:09 - Tip #8: Loving Your Life and Yourself
36:49 - Tip #9: Things Happen When You're Open to Them
39:54 - Tip #10: Pour into Yourself—Date Yourself First
43:00 - Tip #11: Make Your List of Qualities You Want as a Partner
44:00 - Tip #12: Scripting in Journals and Romanticizing Your Life
46:21 - Balancing Feminine Energy with Being Career-Driven To learn more and follow Victoria Alario: ⁠Instagram⁠

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