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Sep 2024
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移民女性如何用食物“夺回”权力?

不合时宜TheWeirdo
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【主播的话】

对旅居异国他乡的人来说,食物是一个既稀疏平常、又深刻重要的话题。味蕾的记忆似乎总是比大脑更先让人勾起乡愁,华人群体里口口相传着那些所谓“正宗”的中餐厅,能一起搭伙吃饭的朋友也似乎更容易彼此理解共情。在移民生活中,食物的意义不再只是满足口腹之欲,也承担了人们对于童年的记忆、对于故国的回想,交织着爱与恨。这期节目里,我们通过美国韩裔作家Grace Cho的《她是幸存者》(Tastes Like War:A Memoir)一书,与食物人类学家曹雨一起,探讨了食物与移民、身份认同、女性权力的关系。

【本期主播】

若含:微博@若含

王磬:微博@王磬

【本期嘉宾】

曹雨:人类学博士后,食物人类学家

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【本期剧透】

00:25 异乡生活中,食物总是点燃又慰藉我们的乡愁

05:10 自欧洲的混搭中餐后,螺蛳粉成为磬友谊的试金石

09:00 作为“食物人类学家”,曹雨如何追溯美食与人的故事

11:20 海外中餐厅的特点、变化与文化脉络

17:05  移民心态变迁:从讨好“当地社会”,到维护食物的本真与传统

22:00 《她是幸存者》中的战争新娘、身份焦虑与家庭食物的传承

25:10 食物是意义记忆的载体,也是是家庭命运的载体

29:30 专注地切一块肉、一块瓜时,食物就是我们反抗宏大叙事的一种武器

31:45 螺蛳粉如何完美化解磬的"仇恨"?美食是华人团结的秘籍!

37:00 从劳动到传承,用女性主义的方式去重新定义厨房

41:15 大城市外卖生活的异化与做饭的性别不平等

47:45 Grace能干却”脆弱”的移民母亲:精神分裂症与社会、原生家庭的关系

56:55 无法与原生家庭和解的人,决定走向Chosen Family

59:45 谁来界定"正宗”:食物与殖民、国家权力的历史

01:05:00 学术界里,“中国食物”有哪些独有的特征?

01:09:45 犹太人做小笼包,珍珠奶茶国际化,中餐有无限的创造力

01:16:45 热爱与探索食物多年,食物对曹雨的意义是什么

01:21:45 从孩童到成人,食物永远会触动我们内心最柔软的一部分

【相关阅读】

格蕾丝·赵:《她是幸存者》( Tastes Like War: A Memoir)

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