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Sep 2024
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Neil Patel: “Rejection doesn’t need to s...

Alice Draper
About this episode

Neil Patel, a renowned marketer and author, shares his insights on rejection and success. He emphasizes the importance of not letting rejection sting and the need to embrace rejection as a part of life and business. Neil discusses his own experiences with rejection and how he learned to be patient and persistent.


He also talks about the mindset of not having much to lose, which allowed him to take risks and pursue his dreams. Neil shares his thoughts on long-term planning, adapting to change, and the importance of community and support in overcoming rejection. He also highlights the value of taking action and not overthinking, as well as the need to own your dreams and not just rent them. Neil provides advice on navigating disagreements and criticism, and he suggests pitching Ray Dalio as a potential guest for the podcast.


For anyone listening, you can order a copy of Hustle: The Power to Charge Your Life with Money, Meaning, and Momentum, as well as Neil’s other books, on Amazon or at your local bookstore.Link: https://www.amazon.com/Hustle-Power-Charge-Meaning-Momentum/dp/1623367166 


I will also be giving away a copy to a listener who subscribes and reviews the podcast. You just need to email screenshots to media@hustlingwriters.com.


To find out more about Neil Patel, his courses and books, visit: https://neilpatel.com/  
Follow Neil on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/neilpatel/


A special thank you to our distribution partners!


Lindy Pfeil, Author and Memoir Coach, website: lindypfeil.com

Emily Tamayo Maher, Author & bestselling author in women’s spirituality, website: meaningmethod.com.

Tracy Stewart, book mentor and developmental editor, author, and ghostwriter, website: freshlypress.com

Javacia Harris Bowser, host of a community for female writers, bloggers, and entrepreneurs, website: seejanewritebham.com

If you are interested in exploring hybrid publishing, I highly recommend getting in touch with Nick Courtright, CEO of atmospherepress.com

If you’re looking for a brain / neuro trainer, check out Paula Echeverri, website: neuromomceo.com

Freelance writers, you are going to want to get your hands on Amber Perry’s guide, 250+ nonfiction publications that pay, so people can start pitching right away. Here’s the link:⁠ https://amber-petty.newzenler.com/f/250-places-that-pay-for-your-writing-forever35


00:00 Introduction and Neil Patel's Background

02:03 Embracing Rejection and Persistence

09:35 Dealing with Rejection and Overcoming Challenges

11:24 Creating Your Own Luck and Trying Different Paths

13:13 Learning from Mistakes and Finding Your Path

14:16 The Value of Big Markets and Broad Focus

19:47 Taking Action and Owning Your Dreams

24:17 Navigating Disagreements and Criticism

26:16 Pitching Tips: Getting a Warm Introduction

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