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Aug 2024
46m 4s

Become His Dream Girl - Bad B*tch Univer...

Violet Benson
About this episode

Welcome to BAD B*TCH UNIVERSITY, baby! This is the second of FOUR powerhouse episodes designed to change the way you've been dating, raise your standards, kick your self worth and self esteem into high gear, attract only the best, and unlock the NEW AND IMPROVED YOU!!!


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TIMESTAMPS:


0:00 - 13:12 - Catch up with Violetta:

  • How to circumcise a man
  • Female circumcision
  • Nipple piercings - good girl vs. bad girl.


13:13 - 46:05 - How to keep him obsessed:

  • How to attract what you want
  • Become everyone's dream girl
  • Learn the secrets to keeping his attention
  • Become more confident
  • Say goodbye to toxic relationships
  • Embrace your worth, set your standards high, and stop settling for anything less


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