Are you ready to dive into the world of evolving desires in long-term relationships? 💋 In this episode, I’m getting real about how our sexual needs and fantasies can change over time—and why that’s not just normal, but exciting! We’re talking all about the importance of open communication, being non-judgmental, and how to explore these new desires together ... Show More
Today
Pretty Privilege Isn't Cheating... It's Female Nature
I finally recorded a Mansplain It To Me Monday sitting right beside the mansplainer himself—and trust me, editing Sir InQ in real time is exactly as chaotic as you’d imagine 😂🔥 He starts explaining why women shouldn’t apologize for using beauty, sexuality, and feminine charm to ... Show More
46m 47s
Jul 11
The Missing Sex Guru Every Man Needs to Hear
Apparently, we've got ourselves a mystery. 😈 One of the most talked-about guests I've ever had has completely vanished... but his advice refuses to die. Years later, you're still asking me where to find him, so I figured we'd revisit the interview together—and now I remember why ... Show More
1h 7m
Feb 2025
When the Turn On Becomes a Turn Off
Sexual preferences demand a lot of trust, intimacy, and vulnerability in relationships. This week, Esther talks with a couple who are refreshingly open and honest about their fantasies. But after 15 years of marriage, his fetish is no longer her pleasure. Esther helps them uncove ... Show More
59m 12s
Jun 2024
Get What You Want (In Bed)
Ever dated a mind reader who just gets you? …Chances are, probably not. Unfortunately for us, deep connections need deep communication skills. I mean, how can your partner know your needs if you don’t tell them? I know it’s not easy, though, and that’s why today’s throwback is al ... Show More
44m 43s
May 2024
Episode 290: How To Have Hot And Healthy Sex For Your Entire Life
<p>Sex is something that evolves with us over the course of our lives. Your level of desire, the connection you have with your partner(s), and what feels good during sex can all shift quite a lot. However, despite all of these ways that sex tends to change, most of us are expecti ... Show More
34m 32s
Sep 2024
How To Ask For What You Want
So your partner is great… but you want them to bring the heat, and don’t know how to ask for it. Now what? On today’s episode, I answer calls about how to ask for exactly what you want, or conversely, don’t want. I also give advice about how to achieve orgasm without relying too ... Show More
50m 26s
Oct 2024
Lasting Longer & Low Libido
When it comes to your most pressing sex issues, have you ever wondered: “ugh, is it just me?” I promise: it’s not just you! To prove it, I’m tackling your top sex questions in this episode. From raising your libido to acing your oral, we cover a lot of ground in this one. How do ... Show More
45m 28s