Are you ready to dive into the world of evolving desires in long-term relationships? 💋 In this episode, I’m getting real about how our sexual needs and fantasies can change over time—and why that’s not just normal, but exciting! We’re talking all about the importance of open communication, being non-judgmental, and how to explore these new desires together ... Show More
Yesterday
I’m Casting My Own Porn Now
Apparently my spank bank has evolved into a full-blown production studio, and I’m the writer, director, casting department…and very satisfied audience. 😈 I can steal the slow, sensual rhythm from one lover, the dirty storytelling from another, throw Cowboy N and Jill into a show ... Show More
28m 44s
Sep 1
The Men Who Built My Spank Bank
Some men leave you flowers. Some leave you heartbreak. Mine left me fantasies I still use when I masturbate. 😈🔥 I’ve apparently been collecting sexual souvenirs for years—dirty things whispered in bed, fantasies we never actually lived out, ridiculously good oral, slow Sunday-m ... Show More
34m 23s
Aug 31
Wonder Woman, Daddy Issues & Fuckboys
Fuckboys, Daddy requests, submissive training, pet names…and Sir InQ’s secret Wonder Woman obsession? 😈 Oh, we are absolutely snooping today. I found an old listener Q&A where people got personal, and apparently there’s a BIG difference between wanting to submit and actually bei ... Show More
33m 32s
Feb 2025
When the Turn On Becomes a Turn Off
Sexual preferences demand a lot of trust, intimacy, and vulnerability in relationships. This week, Esther talks with a couple who are refreshingly open and honest about their fantasies. But after 15 years of marriage, his fetish is no longer her pleasure. Esther helps them uncove ... Show More
59m 12s
Jun 2024
Get What You Want (In Bed)
Ever dated a mind reader who just gets you? …Chances are, probably not. Unfortunately for us, deep connections need deep communication skills. I mean, how can your partner know your needs if you don’t tell them? I know it’s not easy, though, and that’s why today’s throwback is al ... Show More
44m 43s
May 2024
Episode 290: How To Have Hot And Healthy Sex For Your Entire Life
<p>Sex is something that evolves with us over the course of our lives. Your level of desire, the connection you have with your partner(s), and what feels good during sex can all shift quite a lot. However, despite all of these ways that sex tends to change, most of us are expecti ... Show More
34m 36s
Sep 2024
How To Ask For What You Want
So your partner is great… but you want them to bring the heat, and don’t know how to ask for it. Now what? On today’s episode, I answer calls about how to ask for exactly what you want, or conversely, don’t want. I also give advice about how to achieve orgasm without relying too ... Show More
50m 26s
Oct 2024
Lasting Longer & Low Libido
When it comes to your most pressing sex issues, have you ever wondered: “ugh, is it just me?” I promise: it’s not just you! To prove it, I’m tackling your top sex questions in this episode. From raising your libido to acing your oral, we cover a lot of ground in this one. How do ... Show More
45m 28s