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Aug 2024
44m 29s

i stopped waiting for someone to save me...

Ri Turner + Sunset Tim
About this episode

on this journey of self-discovery, i've been forced to realize some harsh truths about myself. one of these truths being that i had been holding my breath, unconsciously waiting on someone or something to come save me. from what, exactly? well... the findings are still pending (lol). but i wholeheartedly decided that i am no longer waiting to be saved. it's both fortunately and unfortunately no longer working for me. in this process of becoming the hero of my story, i noticed some life altering changes within this decision.


in this episode, i reflect on the following themes:

  • blame vs. responsibility
  • forgiveness
  • complaints vs. solutions
  • radical self-acceptance
  • self-narrative shifts
  • inevitable transformation


may this conversation find who it's meant to find. thank you for being here. thank you for allowing me to take up space + for allowing me into yours. know that you are loved.


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