Crushes/Flirting/Taking It Slow

when the nonchalance era started a few years ago, being nonchalant was the highest virtue, and with that virtue, came an even higher cost: your happiness. disguised as a compliment, nonchalance became a prison dressed as freedom - a way to stay safe by staying detached, to protec ... Show More

there’s nothing like going back to ur childhood home during the holidays and, at first, feeling nostalgic, cozy, and maybe even happy… but then a week passes and suddenly you’re spiraling and feeling ugly. this episode, we talk about how the holidays can send us into an insecurit ... Show More

with the holidays come the inevitable dynamics of gift giving. who do you decide gets a gift? is there an appropriate minimum to spend on someone? do you have to give a gift to show someone you love them? this episode we talk about how gift giving has turned into a social obligat ... Show More

<p>Question: What’s the #1 secret to powerful, seductive flirting?</p> <p>For some people, that’s a silly question. “Flirting is simple,” they’ll say. “It’s just something you do when you like someone.”</p> <p>And yet, in my 10 years of learning about attraction, I’ve seen so man ... Show More

is flirting cheating? what exactly is the definition of flirting? what are some signs to look for? today we talk about this controversial topic & share some of our own thoughts & insights. we also end the episode w a little interactive game. happy Friday :) 

<p>We all know flirting is an essential part of attraction, but how do you actually do it? In this clip, Matthew and Stephen talk about some of the subtle, practical ways you can go from casual conversation to flirtation on a first date. </p><br><p>--- </p><br><p>►► Stop Waiting ... Show More

<p>What’s the secret formula for flirting? It’s one thing we all know is important in getting attraction, but rarely are we shown how to actually do it. The truth is, there isn’t a “one size fits all” approach to flirting that works for everyone. But there are things you can do t ... Show More

Flirting can be scary. What if you get rejected? Reframing that mindset is key to an enjoyable flirting experience, according to experts. We got concrete advice on how to strike up a conversation, how to tell if the other person is into it and how to ask for someone's phone numbe ... Show More

Dans cet épisode bienveillant et vrai, Ayesha et Moumina répondent encore une fois à un problème de crush ! À quel moment est-ce que l’on peut dire que l’autre personne trompe ? Concrètement un crush c’est quoi ? Est-qu’on a tous la même idée de crush et d’exclusivité ? Beaucoup ... Show More

<p>Casual relationships and hook-ups are more common than ever. Some even talk about a "hook-up culture".&nbsp;But even though we have more choice than ever, there are sometimes consequences we never anticipate. Society says we shouldn’t have stigma around hooking up and casually ... Show More

<p>What do you do if you fall for someone too fast? Or you find yourself waiting by the phone for their next text? If this happens to you frequently, it can be a sign of bigger issues to do with (a) your confidence, or (b) your perception of someone you're attracted to. In this c ... Show More

It's easy to get attached to someone we've just met...because they're nice. Because they're attractive and treat us right. But how soon is too soon to get attached? Often times I'd become so fixated on one person early on, only to realize it was all smoke and mirrors. This person ... Show More