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Jul 2024
15m 13s

Tuesday Truth: Processing Shame

Rose Skeeters
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Shame is such a complex emotion that it is hard to get out of its grasp. Listen in today for some ways that you begin to process shame and to separate your identity from this intense feeling. Would you like to schedule a session with Rose? Click here: https://www.thriveonlinecounseling.com/product/individual-sessions/ To schedule with Jay, click here: ⁠⁠ https://www.thriveonlinecounseling.com/contact-2/ Do you want to join the online, interactive and supportive B2B Community? We have live weekly podcasts, Q& A with Rose and Jay, cooking groups, book clubs, and more! Click here: ⁠⁠https://fromb2b.mn.co/⁠⁠ Please remember that this podcast or the B2B Community is not a replacement for therapy or clinical services. We are mindset coaches and want to offer this content for the betterment of the BPD community. We offer mindset coaching only for individuals nationally and internationally. Jump start your recovery today!




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