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Jul 2024
14m 50s

81: When Potty Training Isn't Going Well

Jamie Glowacki
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Today, I'm talking about when potty training just isn't going well. Ever feel like you're at your wit's end and everything's chaotic? That's when it's time for a Potty Training Reset. I'll explain how to start fresh without sending the wrong message to your kiddo. We’ll talk about the sweet spot for starting potty training, ideally between 20 to 30 months, and why waiting until the last minute isn't the best plan. Plus, I’m breaking down the nitty-gritty of night and nap diaper training—yes, it’s just as important! We’ll go over strategies to help prevent those pesky withholding behaviors and ensure your little one is on the right track. So, if you’re feeling overwhelmed, tune in for some sanity-saving tips to get your potty training journey back on course!


(00:00:02) Potty Training Refresh: Starting Anew Wisely
(00:05:25) Optimal Timing for Potty Training Onset
(00:08:06) Early Start Prevents Potty Training Delays
(00:10:19) Withholding Behaviors and Nighttime Potty Training


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