“Life is short, have an affair.” That’s the tagline of Ashley Madison, the infamous online dating service that caters to married people who are looking to commit infidelity. Ever since its launch in 2002, it has been the subject of endless controversy, culminating in a widely reported data breech in 2015. A Netflix documentary series titled Ashley Madison: S ... Show More
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Episode 485: The Surprising History Of Fetishes And Porn
Humans have always been kinky, but what we fetishize and why has changed over time. In this episode, we’re revisiting the fascinating history behind some of the most common fetishes. From leather and nylon to the enduring appeal of feet, we’ll unpack how culture, technology, and ... Show More
31m 49s
Mar 17
Episode 484: Who’s Responsible for Your Orgasm? (Essential Listen)
How much do you really know about orgasms? In this episode, we answer common questions about climax and explore the concept of orgasm equity, including what it really means to close the orgasm gap. We’ll also discuss strategies for experiencing more pleasure, and whether becoming ... Show More
31m 1s
Mar 13
Episode 483: Making Relationship Agreements That Work
When people open a relationship, they often start by asking: what are the rules? But the real key to healthy non-monogamy isn’t rules. It’s clarity about needs, desires, and expectations. In this episode, we’re talking about how to design relationship agreements that actually wor ... Show More
36m 37s
May 2024
Ashley Madison: Sex, Lies & Scandal
It was a first-of-its-kind online dating site, one where the clients were already married and looking to have an affair. While Ashley Madison drew rebuke and ridicule for its product, its business soared, with millions of married people across the globe subscribing to the service ... Show More
35m 2s
Sep 2020
26 Cheaters (Ashley Madison)
<p>That's right, a cheating episode. Tune in as we dive behind the scenes of one of the most controversial online dating sites, Ashley Madison and talk to members and staff about why various people cheat and have affairs. We hear the unique story of Bobby Goldman, a widow (70s) w ... Show More
1h 10m
Jun 2025
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<p> We’re dropping in with an episode from <em>Sex Ed with DB</em>, a podcast all about inclusive, pleasure-focused sex ed. In this episode, host Danielle Bezalel sits down with Dr. Emily Nagoski — bestselling author of <em>Come As You Are</em> — to talk about what it really take ... Show More
50m 55s
Feb 2025
Female Pleasure with Bridget Berman
This episode really has it all - orgasms, porn, masturbation and even Martha Stewart! Mal and her friend Bridget talk about female pleasure, addressing the social stigmas and shame that women are taught, and the benefits to this form of self-care. The episode also explores bisexu ... Show More
59m 55s
Sep 2025
1230 - Dean had an Affair with a Hot, Bank Teller and It Didn't End Well
Dean had an affair with his hot bank teller that didn't end well and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including his sex life with his wife and the issues she had, how his wife kind of gave him a free pass and why he had never taken it, how he sta ... Show More
1h 10m
Oct 2025
#292 Exploring Sexual Confidence and Healing After Heartbreak with Dr. Tara
In today’s expert episode, I’m so excited to welcome back Dr. Tara, a tenured professor of relational and sexual communication, TV sexpert, and now author of the brand new book “How Do You Like It?” We dive deep into the shifting narratives around sex and relationships, especiall ... Show More
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