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Jul 2024
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How To Stop People Pleasing and Set Boun...

Rob Dial
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Today we're exploring the world of people pleasing and how to set those essential boundaries. We'll dive into why we often put others' needs before our own and how this habit usually starts in childhood. I’ll give you actionable steps to become aware of your people-pleasing tendencies, set clear boundaries, and build your confidence. Join me as we learn how to say “no” more often and start prioritizing our own needs. This is one you won’t want to miss!

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