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Jul 2024
1h 34m

How to Be F*cking Confident with Serena ...

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About this episode

If you’ve ever asked “How can I be more confident?”, this episode is for you. We are so f*cking excited to have Serena F*cking Kerrigan to talk about how to be confident and why it’s crucial for finding the right partner (and filtering out the wrong ones). We discuss her relationship (how they met, dating a younger man, and the “screenshot” test for knowing if someone is right for you) as well as tips for meeting people in the wild (eye f*cking, anyone?). She shares how she turned a Covid dating strategy into a business and why her card games are the perfect way to elevate a date, your sex life, and more. Then we define what “doing it for the plot” really means and play “Plot to Not” to determine if our listeners’ spiciest scenarios qualify. Before Serena joins us, we’re breaking down phone behavior and deciding what’s “normal” or not when it comes to charging, texting, and more, plus talking about invisible string theory. Enjoy!

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