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Mar 2023
19m 44s

Date Yourself

BALANCE
About this episode

What does it mean to #dateyourselfinstead? Ofosu and Leah talk about their experiences of taking themselves out on solo dates and why they're important, even if you're in a relationship. They also discuss tips to help you prioritize dating yourself, push against your comfort zone, and nurture your independence.

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🎧 What's in this episode:

  • Leah's experience going on artist dates
  • Ofosu's experience eating solo at a restaurant
  • How to push against your comfort zone
  • Learning how to be truly autonomous
  • The difference between spending time by yourself and dating yourself
  • Going on N.I.C.E dates
  • How Leah prepares for a solo date
  • Nurturing the independent part of you
  • Taking micro-dates with intention
  • Feeling awkward when you're out by yourself
  • Do you really know yourself?
  • How to prioritize dating yourself
  • Overcoming mom guilt
  • Dressing up for yourself

🧘 About Balance: Well Balanced is co-hosted by Ofosu and Leah, Balance’s Co-Heads of Meditation. Balance is a highly personalized meditation and sleep app that's been named Google's App of the Year and Apple's App of the Day. Completely free for the entire first year, Balance is helping 5 million+ people around the world improve their stress, sleep, focus, and mood. Unlock your free year of Balance today by downloading it from the App Store or Play Store: https://balanceapp.sng.link/Arat1/h3qp/icji

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