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Jun 2024
34m 39s

Date Smarter, Not Harder: 9 Game-Changin...

Violet Benson
About this episode

Ready to flip the dating game on its head? 🔄 In this episode of Almost Adulting, I dive into the 9 game-changing rules that transformed my dating life from a stress-fest to a worry-free zone! Whether it's saying 'yes' when you'd usually say 'no' or learning the fine art of flying solo, these tips are your new dating playbook. Tune in to discover why talking to multiple men isn't just fun—it's essential, and why waiting for sex could be the best move you make. Get ready, because it's time to master the dating game the Violet Benson way!!

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