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Jun 2024
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Commitment Devices For Creating Lasting ...

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How can we make real, lasting changes in our lives? Katy Milkman talks with Ryan about strategic methods we can use to overcome barriers to change, examples we can learn from The Odyssey, powerful commitment devices, empathy gaps, and more. 


Katy Milkman is a Behavioral Scientist, Wharton Professor, and Co-Director of the Behavior Change for Good Initiative. She is the Author of How to Change and podcast host of Choicology


You can connect with Katy on X: @katy_milkman and on Instagram: @katymilkman


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