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Jun 2024
1h 6m

Become Unf**kwithable

Kim Anami
About this episode

When you give yourself ALL the fucks, you have no fucks left to give. 

I always say that one of the hallmarks of becoming a well-fucked woman—or a well-fucked man—is that you reach the pinnacle stage of not giving a fuck what anyone thinks of you. 


You have such clarity in your own truth, AND the confidence to act upon it in your life, that you give zero fucks about what anyone thinks about you. 


You aren’t TRYING not to care. You just DON’T care. 


All of your fucks are directed to the right place: you and your partner. 

That’s it. That’s the magic secret. 


WHY is this? 


In this episode: 

  • Why being well-f**ked makes you unfuckwithable 
  • No apologies, muthafuckers 
  • How I’ve dealt with troll and underfucked orc attacks
  • Making unfuckwithable choices, like knowing you have to leave a relationship, still loving them, but finding the strength to leave anyway 
  • Energy orgasms without touch 
  • Breast massage unlocking feminine energy 
  • Revenue tripling within a month from sexual awakening 
  • Attracting the “no excuses” crowd 
  • The lie of menopause 
  • Listening to the fourth brain of you pussy-gut-pussy

My legendary How to Be a Well-Fucked Woman Salon opens in a few weeks. This is my 10-week online program in all things female sexuality where you learn how to give all the fucks to yourself and your partner with: 

  • Self-Pleasuring 101 and how to channel sexual energy into creative genius
  • Cock whispering oral, manual and sex position techniques
  • Breast and yoni massage routines 
  • How to surrender and inhabit your feminine energy to build a life of ease and pleasure
  • How to transform challenging menstruation, PMS and menopause into blissful portals
  • Step-by-step instructions for the deeper vaginal orgasms: G-Spot, cervical and squirting

And through all of this, become utterly UN-FUCK-WITH-ABLE. 


You can check out the free video preview series and take the quiz and find out ARE YOU UNDERFUCKED?
 
Go to How to Be a Well-F**ked Woman

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