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May 2024
58m 1s

The Myth of Resilience (Soraya Chemaly)

Elise Loehnen
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“This is the richness of the traditional wife explosion, right? There's this simple idea that you get to choose. Now you're choosing to emulate a situation that's a fiction in that those women didn't choose anything. They had to dress like that. They had to live like that. They had to be nice to the men like that, because they had no bank accounts. They had ... Show More
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