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Sep 2021
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63. What to do after an affair with Mac ...

Amber Dalsin
About this episode

The truth you didn’t know about healing from infidelity, tools you can use to overcome betrayal, and steps to rebuild so you can create a relationship that was even stronger than before.

In this episode we cover:

  • What goes wrong in relationships that sets the stage for infidelity.
  • Dos and don’ts after learning about an affair.
  • If affairs are really about sex.
  • Different kinds of people who have affairs.
  • The 3 stages of healing after infidelity.
  • What is an appropriate consequence after infidelity so your partner can trust again.

Bio:

Mac Stanley Cazeau, LMHC owner and operator of Therapy Is For Everyone Counseling where he specializes in individual counseling, marriage, family, and couples counseling. Mac’s caseload tends to be 70% couples, and 30% individuals/family, of which majority are black men and women.

Mr. Cazeau obtained his Undergraduate Degree in B.S Psychology from Queens College and Masters of Mental Health Counseling from Long Island University. Furthermore, Mr. Cazeau obtained 3 certifications from the Gottman Institute & one certification from the Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT ) model. Mr. Cazeau’s therapeutic philosophy focuses on a holistic approach, utilizing a variety of techniques, tailoring the therapy to each individual's needs.

Mr. Cazeau specializes in the following:

  • Relationship Counseling
  • Improving Communication Skills
  • Conflict Management
  • Increasing Friendship, Intimacy, Admiration, and Fondness within Couples
  • Attachment, Love Addiction
  • Healing from Trauma & Affairs
  • Dating and/or Recovering from A Narcissist
  • Divorce/Separation & Family Dynamics
  • Depression, Anxiety, Anger Management

Website: Therapyisforeveryone.org

Email: Talk2Mac1on1@gmail.com

IG: @Talk2Mac_Therapist

This episode is for informational purposes only.

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