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May 2024
33m 14s

How to Know What's Real: How to Trust Yo...

THE ATLANTIC
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This episode explores the web’s effects on our brains and how narrative, repetition, and even a focus on replaying memories can muddy our ability to separate fact from fiction.  How do we come to believe the things we do? Why do conspiracy theories flourish? And how can we train our brains to recognize misinformation online?  Lisa Fazio, an associate psychol ... Show More
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