Jun 2025

Is He a Godly Guy or Smooth Talker? How to Tell the Difference

Send a textMarrying a man of godly character sounds amazing... but how can you know if he’s actually walking the walk — not just talking the talk? You need more than good vibes and sweet words. You need real answers to questions like:“What kind of character does this guy really h ... Show More

44m 23s

May 2025

How to Spot the Legalism Hiding in “Godly” Womanhood w/ Leslie Ludy

Send a textIs it possible to pursue godly femininity without getting tangled in legalism, fear, or performance-driven faith? In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with best-selling author and speaker Leslie Ludy to unpack the subtle (and sometimes not-so-subtle) ways legalism c ... Show More

38m 30s

May 2025

Cosmo Lied to You: The Truth About Sex, Identity, and God’s Design for Women

Send a textYou’ve seen the headlines: “Her Wildest Night Yet!” or “10 Secrets to Epic Pleasure.” Cosmo and other mainstream magazines have been feeding women these so-called empowering stories for decades. But what if those stories aren’t even real? What if they're simply propaga ... Show More

19m 7s

May 2019

196: The New Science Behind Men's Sexuality

Men are horny all of the time, and all they want is sex! At least this is what popular culture tells us. Our guest today is here to tell us why that's not true, and how this common narrative is negatively impacting our relationships. Listen to today's show to learn the research b ... Show More

52m 29s

Jul 2025

Sex Therapy Part 2: Sexual Differences Between Men & Women

In this episode of Relationship Advice, guest sex therapist Bryttney Huseas joins the hosts to explore the nuanced and often misunderstood sexual differences between men and women. The conversation addresses cultural scripts, body image, power dynamics, and the distinct ways that ... Show More

41m 18s

Dec 2016

The Modern Man's Guide to Mismatched Libidos

We talk A LOT about issues surrounding the female sex drive, but we rarely discuss what it’s like for the person in the passenger seat. On today’s show, we’re unpacking this topic of low libido from a different angle and we’ve got Dr. Ian Kerner on the line to help provide a litt ... Show More

56m 30s

Sep 2025

Does Size Really Matter?

This week on Pretty Basic we’re getting real about sex with special guests Dr. Cory Pedersen (founder of Orgasm Lab) and Amanda Champion (lead researcher). From the psychology behind dick pics (including the recent one Alisha got 👀), to the orgasm gap, to the myths and taboos we ... Show More

1h 6m

Apr 2025

Why Do My Partner And I Have Different Sex Drives

Explore the common relational challenge of mismatched sex drives in partnerships, emphasizing that differences in sexual desire are normal and often rooted in individual biology, life stage, or emotional dynamics. Rather than seeking a “right” or “normal” amount of sex, the hosts ... Show More

49m 19s

Dec 2019

Sex Ed Part 1

You Asked and The Men AnswerThe men are answering your... Sex questions. From Sexting to Sexless ....Foreplay to the ForbiddenHonest answers to your questions about sex and intimacy.Who should initiate? What happens when you get turned down for sex? Dr. Viviana Coles, Certified ... Show More

1h 11m

Aug 2021

Alpha Males vs. Beta Males

<p>In today’s episode, a blunt examination of:</p><ul><li>Is the feminization of men deliberate?</li><li>Who do women prefer having sex with?</li><li>The differences between alpha and beta men.</li><li>We are swimming in a sea of estrogen: where is it coming from?</li><li>A major ... Show More

20m 47s

Jul 2022

How We Found Sexual Satisfaction with Different Sex Drives | Relationship Theory

Dealing with mismatched sex drives can be horrifying, frustrating and a host of other undesired emotions for both partners. How do you find compromise when one partner is in the mood every day, any time ready to go, and the other partner could check in once or twice a week and be ... Show More

32m 24s

Sep 2023

Inspire Your Partner: Relationship Reality Check Part 4

Dr. Phil McGraw and Dr. Justin Lehmiller, discuss topics related to sexuality and relationships. They talk about the importance of inspiring and encouraging your partner rather than controlling them. Dr. Lehmiller shares his background in studying human sexuality and his interest ... Show More

48m 50s

Jul 2021

Summer Quickies: My Husband Has a Lower Sex Drive

While husbands statistically have a higher drive, there are millions of marriages with sexually frustrated wives because of a low-drive or no-drive husband. On this week’s new episode of the podcast, we address a listener’s question about how to manage lopsided sex drives and how ... Show More

18m 21s

Men and Women have Different Sex Drives ...