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May 2024
28m 35s

How to Know What's Real: How to Know Who...

THE ATLANTIC
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Social media has made it easier to build more parasocial relationships with celebrities and influencers. What impact are those connections having on our relationships IRL? And how do they shift our understanding and expectations of intimacy and trust?  Florida State University assistant professor Arienne Ferchaud defines parasocial relationships and discusse ... Show More
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