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Oct 2023
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What do we get from celebrity crushes? W...

AMERICAN PSYCHOLOGICAL ASSOCIATION
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Parasocial relationships -- the relationships that people have with media figures such as actors, celebrity influencers, or even television characters -- sometimes get a bad rap. But psychologists who study parasocial relationships say that they can be good for us: They can help us expand our world view and can have positive effects on our mental health and ... Show More
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