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Apr 2024
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THE REAL SEX EDUCATION
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*TRIGGER WARNING* FGM is discussed in this episode. You can find support below:


NHS National FGM Support Clinics – https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/female-genital-mutilation-fgm/national-fgm-support-clinics/ 

The Dahlia Project – https://www.dahliaproject.org/access-our-services/ 


In this episode, Cate and Diggory answer more of your questions including if shift work can affect your sex life, how to find the clitoris and whether not being able to get an erection whilst giving a sperm donation means you've got a low sex drive.


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