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Apr 2024
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452. Our ‘coming out’ stories | Alix Tra...

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Este episodio está en inglés, puedes encontrar el episodio con subtítulos en español en nuestro canal de YouTube entrando aquí

In today’s episode we talked to two of our closest friends, Alix Traeger & Mal Glowenke, about women liking other women, the lesbian world and being gay. We talked about the importance of questioning what the patriarchal society we grew up in taught us, and how labels don’t define who we are. They walked us through how they first started exploring their sexuality, how they realized they wanted to be with a woman and what are the biggest lessons of their ‘coming out’ stories. If you’re going through a journey of questioning your sexuality, this is the episode for you. 


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In this episode you will find information about:

  • The lack of lesbian representation in the media
  • Myths and stereotypes of lesbians.
  • How to discover your authentic self and live your truth?
  • Why ‘Coming out’ it’s more like a "Coming in"?
  • How to create safe spaces where you can be yourself?
  • First dates with women
  • The importance of exploring our sexuality 


If you like this episode you can also listen (they’re all in english): 

187. Libro: Indomable | Glennon Doyle | Episodio Especial 

444. The power of being yourself | Alok Veid-Menon 


You can find Mal’s podcast “Made it out” here

En el episodio de hoy invitamos a dos de nuestras mejores amigas, Alix Traeger & Mal Glowenke para hablar sobre su experiencia como mujeres lesbianas. Hablamos de la importancia de cuestionar las ideas que nos enseñó la sociedad en la que crecimos y cómo las etiquetas no definen quiénes somos. Nos contaron cuándo y cómo empezaron a cuestionar su sexualidad, cómo se dieron cuenta de que querían estar con una mujer y los aprendizajes que les dejó su experiencia al contarle a otras personas sobre su orientación sexual.Si hoy estás cuestionando tu sexualidad, este episodio es para ti. 


Ve este episodio con subtítulos en español en Youtube


Si te gustó este episodio también puedes escuchar:

20. Salir del clóset | David Rodriguez

304. ¿Cómo nos afectan las etiquetas?: Retos de la comunidad LGBTQIA+ | Enrique Torre Molina


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