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Apr 2024
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77: Personal Responsibility... This One ...

Kamal Ellis-Hyman, Storme Arundell, Eliza Ellis-Hyman
About this episode

In this episode, Kamal, Eliza and Storme discuss the importance of taking personal responsibility and avoiding the tendency to blame others for our failures. They explore why people continue to walk down a path that is failing them and not take action to change it. The conversation also touches on the fear of failure and the need to have a plan for the future. They provide strategies for coping with stress during exams and emphasise the importance of creating order and structure in managing time. The episode concludes with a reminder to focus on personal growth and becoming a great adult.

Takeaways

Take personal responsibility for your actions and avoid blaming others for your failures.

Don't continue down a path that is failing you without taking action to change it.

Have a plan for the future and be proactive in pursuing your goals.

Create order and structure in managing your time to reduce stress and increase productivity.


Chapters


00:00 Introduction

00:46 Taking Personal Responsibility

03:12 The Importance of Personal Responsibility in Education

05:09 Preempting Failure

06:23 The Fear of Failure

08:10 Having a Plan for the Future

09:35 The Importance of Clarity and Direction

10:34 Coping with Stress during Exams

11:32 Creating Order and Structure

12:55 Identifying the Root Cause of Stress

14:17 Finding Strategies to Manage Stress

20:24 Eliminating Distractions and Focusing on the Task at Hand

23:36 Being Realistic and Adapting to Your Environment

25:03 Taking Personal Responsibility for Success

26:46 The Power of Personal Responsibility

29:06 Growing Up to Be a Great Adult

30:00 Conclusion



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