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Apr 2024
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177. Managing Reactions to Unwelcome Fee...

SUSAN CALLENDER
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In this week's episode, I answer a listener's question about feeling criticized vs. receiving helpful feedback. We also discuss delayed trauma and how that bubbles back up to the surface in your professional life as soon as we're triggered.

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