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Apr 2024
25m 48s

Forgive Yourself | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Ryan Michler
About this episode

Ever wrestle with the specter of past mistakes? In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler guides you to breaking free from guilt and embracing a future of self-growth. He delves into the transformative act of self-forgiveness, laying out a roadmap for freeing oneself from the chains of regret. Through heartfelt discussion, he unpacks the power of acknowledging our missteps and the impact they've had on others, as well as the subtle art of making amends. Learn five actionable strategies to forgive yourself, and discover how to offer sincere apologies without falling into the trap of manipulation or over-apologizing.

 

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro

(00:47 - 01:28) Learning to Forgive Yourself

(07:17 - 08:16) Moving on Without Acceptance of Apology

(17:32 - 18:38) Recognizing Personal Growth

 

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