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Apr 2024
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How to Stop Fearing Other People's Opini...

Tanner clark
About this episode

Have you heard about F.O.P.O? Michael Gervais, in his book "The first rule of mastery", introduces the "Fear of People's Opinions". This week's episode of The Second of Strength Podcast talks about this concept and what it really means.


The key differentiation is that it's not "caring" about what people think. We should care about what some people thing. However, we shouldn't "worry" about what people think.


I'll share a few tips that will help you leave worry behind so you can be you and stop worrying about the opinions of others.


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