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Apr 2024
29m 30s

Coping with family estrangement, with Lu...

AMERICAN PSYCHOLOGICAL ASSOCIATION
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Being estranged from a family member -- a parent, sibling or adult child -- is far more common than people think. Dr. Lucy Blake, author of “No Family is Perfect: A Guide to Embracing the Messy Reality,” talks about why family estrangement happens, why estrangement encompasses more than just “no contact,” the stigma around estrangement, and where and how to ... Show More
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